Who is this Valentine character and why does he force us to get all gushy and spend wads of cash on jewelry that our significant others might not even like?

Well Feb. 14 was only first associated with love and affection in the Middle Ages when Pope Gelasius I established it as an official “day” in 496 AD.

But Valentine’s Day (originally known as Saint Valentine’s Day) started as a holiday that honors a series of Christian martyrs of the above mentioned name. Specifically (according to History.com) Valentine of Rome, Valentine of Terni. Unfortunately association with these two clergymen was essentially lost and forgotten by the time Feb. 14 became a day for heart bubbles and hugs.

There are all kinds of legends as to how this holiday grew into what it is today, but the one we think makes the most sense (we just want it to be true!) is when the first valentine card was sent – and why.

It is said that the priest Valentine disobeyed a law from Roman Emperor Claudius II, one that ordered all young men remain unmarried. So Valentine secretly performed the hitching ceremonies regardless, and when he was found out he was thrown in jail to be executed.

And so, the night before his death, Valentine allegedly wrote a note addressed to a young girl who may very well have been his main squeeze, and he signed it “From your Valentine.”

Aaaaaawwwwwwwww.

What are you doing wasting time questioning Valentine’s Day and why it even matters? Go find someone you love (or at least like a little) and tell them so. You’ll feel so good afterward – and you might even get laid! (BONUS.)

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1. Dinner. (And you’re the chef.)

You may have heard it before but nothing makes a girl or guy feel more special than coming home to find you’ve planned an entire evening devoted just to them – especially when it involves a home-cooked meal and something special for dessert.

Find out what their favorite food is. If it’s something complicated or crazy, go with something their mother used to make that they rarely eat on their own. (This might involve some sleuth work but hopefully you have some way to engage friends or family members to find out.)

Then make sure you plan it on a night that’s totally open. No meetings, no outings, and certainly no need to wake up super-early the next day. This is a big night and it’s likely not going to end with a simple piece of cake.

Set the table and have the house as clean as possible. Then time it so when your partner walks through the door the place already smells like the meal of his or her dreams. Pour a glass of wine or water, sit them down, and tell them not to lift a finger. Dinner (and cleanup) is on you tonight.

You’ll be thanked handsomely. Probably more than once.

2. O-Vation Sex Kit

When you want to bring something new and exciting into the bedroom but don’t have a ton of cash to drop on the new must-have sex toy, there’s the O-Vation intimacy kit – a mini collection of sensual products ideal for a perfect night in, with two sets of each item so you’ll be ready for the encore!

Each O-Vation kit features:

• 2 Screaming O Vibrating Rings – These vibrating rings have won countless awards for quality and general awesome-ness, and this kit has three so you won’t run out of juice before you do.

They’re comfortable, easy to try, and disposable so you can toss them away once they’ve done their job. She’ll experience sensations she’s never before had, and he’ll be her Prince Charming.

• 2 Lubricant Packs – Nothing says great sex quite like lube! We’ve included two sample packs of great-tasting flavored lube so you can keep things slick and smooth all night long.2 Warming Lube Packets
• 2 Sensually Thin Condoms – Nothing says “I love you” quite like safe sex and you’ll always be prepared for whatever comes your way with these two condoms by your side.
• 2 Sensual Wipes – Freshen up before you both get started or clean up after sex quickly and easily. These fresh-smelling wipes are handy to keep around the house or even carry around with you so you’ll never miss another horny moment.
• 2 Pillow Mints – Cuz why not? They taste good, and everyone could use a bit of a breath boost at the end of the day.

3. Picnic in the Park

It sounds corny, like something you’d see in a cookie-cutter rom-com film, but there’s something quaint, cute and thoughtful about setting up a little picnic in the park. It shows you’re thinking outside the box and eager to show your partner you care.

Nothing puts a person in a better mood than sunshine, blue skies, and yummy food. So fill your pack with your partner’s favorite drinks and snacks and don’t forget a blanket! Stuff some pillows and maybe another blanket in there so that, once you’ve eaten everything and ready to sun yourselves, you can set up a comfortable spot to lie together.

Listen to music, read books, toss a Frisbee – enjoy the simple things that your partner probably has been too stressed or busy to make time for, and remind him or her of how easy it can be when you’re with the person you love!

4. Massage. (And you’re the masseuse.)

You can get a full-body treatment for your beau at a fancy spa if you agree to eat Ramen noodles for every meal the month prior. But why spend have your week’s salary on an hour with a stranger?

You can make the experience a million times more intimate if you do it yourself, and when you’re all done loosening up your partner with oil and soft-yet-firm strokes there’s nothing stopping you from lubing yourself up and joining the rubdown fest!

Aside from the obvious benefits – soothed muscles, good mood, relaxed state of mind – massages are one of the most romantic (not to mention sexy) things you can do for one another. You’re not wearing clothes, lights are dim, candles are lit, music is soft, and your hands are all over your partner’s naked body. It screams sex.

Put in a little study time and look online for back, butt and leg techniques and do your best to replicate what you learn. Your partner will be happy to the center of your attention and when he/she feels your strong hands at work, you both can expect much more than a happy ending!

5. A Night at the Theater (in your apartment.)

Movie tickets aren’t cheap, and with parking fees and the general irritation of being surrounded by loud moviegoers scarfing popcorn and spilling soda, a trip to the theater just isn’t all that hot.

But as we always say, if you want it done sexy you gotta do it yourself. Find out your partner’s favorite movie, or if there’s a film he or she has desperately wanted to see. You can find this out from friends, casual (and stealthy) breakfast conversation, or by stealing a glance at your shared Netflix account.

Surprise your partner with a special night in. Turn the lights off, clear off the couch, and set up a special viewing/snacking/snuggling area just for you too. Make popcorn from scratch (or microwave if you must), pick up a collection of chocolates and candies to snack on, and make sure there are plenty of drinks available to wash it all down.

Because the one thing we always wish we could do at the movie theater is to snuggle up to our honeys without those damn arm rests getting in the way. Especially when the movie features some kind of scary monster. But keep in mind that since this is a special gift for your partner, you might have to take one for the team and watch something you’d rather not.

Be a good sport and remember whose special night is – because your partner certainly will, and will undoubtedly return the favor in a variety of ways once the credits start rolling

Read original article at Sexy Cupid Blog.

Valentine’s Day is getting close and it’s time to figure out how you can make the night extra-special for your sweetheart. But flowers and candies are passé, and if you eat too many caramels you might end up with a stomach ache – not sexy.

Here are some of our favorite treats that are known for their aphrodisiac qualities, and what more could you want than a meal full of foods that’ll get your motors running and ready for some action?

1. Honey

Honey is sweet and sticky and fun to eat, especially when it’s drizzled on your lover’s skin. But what you might not know about the gooey treat is that it’s also a solid source of boron, a mineral known for enhancing testosterone levels in the blood and metabolizing estrogen.

Testosterone is the male hormone that facilitates orgasm and sex drive, while estrogen is the female sex hormone responsible for all kinds of intimate sensations. And on top of all that, honey’s got B vitamins, enzymes and other nurturing nutrients that help the get-sexy process moving smooth.

2. Oysters

They don’t look appetizing and many of us have a hard time even thinking about swallowing one. But we’ve all heard the rumors that oysters are one of the most recommended aphrodisiacs on the planet, so maybe it’s worth a shot?

Oysters are super-high in zinc, a mineral that boosts libido and mood and even helps produce sperm.

So make a night of it, go to an oyster bar known for different varieties (like wine, oysters from different regions taste different!) and make sure you have a cold glass of champagne or white wine nearby to help get the mood right.

Plus, if you don’t like the taste of oysters but want to get your money’s worth, you’ll have something to wash them down with and will certainly help get you giggly and happy for dessert!

3. Avocado

According to some researchers, the Aztecs called the avocado “ahuacuatl,” which means testicle tree. Hm.

Well, sure, they look like men’s dangly parts, but what really gets people in the mood is the fruit’s rich folic acid, potassium, and vitamin B6 components – all important for mood and energy boosting along with increased blood flow and sexy thoughts.

4. Rock On Sexy Cocktail

Rock on is an amazing sexual elixir with two special formulations designed specifically for his and her desires. Each drink is made of all-natural herbal ingredients each with a different pleasure purpose.

Herbal aphrodisiacs including horny goat weed increase sexual desire and libido, guarana and caffeine boost energy, and particular pleasure-inducing components are added to each for targeted enhancement for men and women. Ginkgo biloba and St. John’s Wort calm and relax her mood, while xanthoparmelia scabrosa extract increase his blood flow and erectile function.

And the best part? Each formula tastes great mixed with vodka and a little cranberry juice, making the ultimate get-sexy after-dinner cocktail that’ll get you both in the mood fast!

5. Chocolate

Pure chocolate is a wonderful aphrodisiac known for its anandamide and phenylethylamine, two chemicals known for their ultimate mood-boosting properties. Phenylethylamine releases dopamine – a chemical that the body naturally releases during orgasm.

The euphoric feeling you get from eating a piece of pure chocolate is one of a kind, and you can bet that after just a few bites – especially with some champagne or strawberries nearby – you’ll be ready to rip each other’s clothes off before dessert’s finished.

Just don’t eat too much – cavities and stomach aches are NOT sexy!

Read more sexy Valentines ideas here.

Without a sweetheart or special date it’s easy to feel down and out. But what we’ve all forgotten is how important it is to love ourselves, and what better time of year to do it than Cupid’s special day?

Because only you know what you truly want and need, and heck, if it’s a bunch of red roses, that’s totally cool. But ladies, when it comes to self-love on Valentine’s Day there’s only direct path to your heart, and we’ve got the tools you need.

How about a mini vibe in one hand, a glass of champagne in the other, and some lube nearby in case it turns into an all-nighter?

And to help you on your way, here are 5 top tips to guarantee you a Valentine’s Day that will bring you precisely what you want:

1. Treat Yourself – to a New Sex Toy! There are so many stylish and sexy toys out there, (and may we recommend a stylish piece from The Studio Collection?) Once you see how clever these little vibes can be you surely can find room in the budget. That lipstick right there, and the mascara next to it – they’re not actually cosmetics. Turn them on, feel them buzz, and get ready for a very special night in. You’ll never look at your makeup bag the same way.

Read the full article from the Sexy Cupid blog here.

The fashion capital of the world is celebrating the debut of our Studio Collection with a Parisian high-style premiere to celebrate the official world-wide launch of the year’s most anticipated sexcessory collection.

Upscale Parisian retail boutique “Passage du Desir” will host a red carpet affair Jan. 19 starring the romantic style and glamour one can only find in the city of love and lights.

Don’t you wish you kinda didn’t live here? Just for like, a couple of days?

Paris is known for its sensual, yet surprisingly conservative, culture and The Studio Collection’s clever high-end cosmetic disguise is perfect for Parisians’ appetite for sex and fashion. Who’d a thunk it, but it’s not as en vogue to be overtly sexual in the city of lights and love!

“It was only logical that a chic and discreet collection like this would make its European debut in the beautiful city of Paris,” The Screaming O partner Keith Caggiano said. “The city embodies couture fashion and high style living and will be a spectacular showcase for The Studio Collection. We’re proud to bring in the season’s most in-demand line of vibes and sexcessories with such high-fashion fanfare.”

Store-goers will be treated to red carpet fanfare with glittering flash bulbs, bubbling champagne, and delicious hors d’oeuvres as they peruse the shelves and pick which Studio Collection items they want to take home that night.

There will even be cosmetic “sexcessory” specialists to demonstrate each Lipstick, Mascara Wand, and Makeup Brush vibrator, as well as each of the three sexual enhancement products, and offer bedroom tricks and tips to all who attend.

Fun prizes and giveaways are planned for the Paris debut, and with each purchase partygoers will get a special red Studio Collection gift bag as a special “merci beaucoup.” Each shopper who buys the full line will take home a complimentary makeup purse to carefully carry and safely store all of their special goodies.

And rumor has it that more of these parties are planned for the months ahead. Even in the U S of A! So stay tuned and we’ll keep you posted!

We did it again! The Screaming O took home another Marketing Campaign of the Year award from XBIZ, a media organization that covers all things adult industry. It’s our second marketing accolade from XBIZ and our FOURTH trophy recognizing our hard work promoting our top-selling sex toys!

The event was held at the Barker Hangar in Santa Monica, Calif., and was filled with glittery lights and flashbulbs with more than our fair share of scantily clad porn stars scrambling to get a look at our new Studio Collection.

Who knew how popular little cosmetics and lipsticks that secretly vibrate would be with even the most famous porn stars?!

“The Screaming O is honored to have won this award,” The Screaming O partner Keith Caggiano said. “Thanks to all those who voted for us. Marketing and merchandising is one of our specialties, and we can’t wait to show everyone what we have planned next!

Remember the girl you loved to look at from across the drive-in? Or the cheerleader you wanted to ask to the prom? How about the girl next door who always left her curtains open when she knew you were home? We captured them all, and chose your favorite moments in time that capture the most recognizable elements of American pop culture history.

These were the people, places and products that helped define an era – a simpler, more conservative time that set the scene for a sexual revolution. And with this calendar The Screaming O is celebrating the past and present, as its award-winning sex toy and intimate accessory collections have already become part of a new pop culture generation.

Whether she’s sitting at the soda pop shop, checking her oil at the garage, or revving engines at the race track, these ladies embrace their sexy sides with cool confidence and definitive style and help stir this self-assured attitude from within us all.

Because the whole point is to remind our friends, fans and sex toy aficionados that every woman – no matter how conservative, collected, or composed – has a Screaming O Girl within.

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It’s that time of year. We’re scrambling around for the best deals on gifts and gadgets that are on everyone’s holiday list and trying not to get trampled during the sales. But once you’ve got something under the tree for everyone on your shopping roster, you still have those damn stockings hanging over the fireplace to fill.

And that’s where The Screaming O comes in. You don’t have much space, and you don’t have much time to get creative. So what to you buy for the girl who hates gift cards, the guy who doesn’t need another pair of socks, or your significant other who’s expecting something incredible?

Fortunately for you, sex is the gift that never stops giving, even when you’re not around, and The Screaming O makes it easy to give the gift of joy – with batteries included.

Guys – every mini vibe, love ring, and couples sexcessory is small enough to fit in your pocket (and her holiday stocking) and if you’re daring you can stuff more than just a few in there to show her you really mean business.

And ladies – if you’re best friend is the kind of chick who didn’t blush during Sex Ed, you can put together a special gift basket of the very best that The Screaming O has to offer so she has something new to open every day until New Year’s Eve.

If you, your partner, or your besties aren’t sure what might make the best stocking stuffer or sexy gift this year, here are a few suggestions coming from The Screaming O’s research and development team – no one better to ask romantic gift advice from than the people in charge of creating sexy things!

1. Looking for a way to spice up things this holiday season and an easy way to introduce toys into the bedroom?

Stuff their stocking with:
Screaming O Vibrating Ring – the award winning, top-selling revolutionary disposable sex aid is a couples-friendly design that enhances the ability for both partners to achieve incredible orgasms…together. Now that’s what we call a holiday marvel.

2. Looking for fun bedroom toys that will get you in the holiday mood?

Stuff their stocking with:
FingO Glow, O Glow Bullet and Big O Glow – glowing super-powered vibrators with LED light. Save your holiday light competition for the bedroom this year and keep them screaming all night!

3. Looking for a way to add some cute fun in their stocking and in the sack?

Stuff their stocking with:
Bullet Buddies – Super-fun portable mini bullet in 5 cute shapes. Nestle into bed with visions of Bullet Buddies dancing in your head this holiday season!

4. Looking for a way to warm up your holiday nights without all the vibration?

Stuff their stocking with:
OJoy - Non-vibrating textured erection ring for less buzz and more rubbin’ fun. You’ll be singing O Joy to the World this season with this sexy present.

5. Looking to take it to the next level before ringing in the New Year?

Stuff their stocking with:
The BangO – Vertical vibrating pleasure ring w/ triple-weighted balls. Deck his balls with this swinging, banging pleasure-seeking gift.

Each year, this Halloween parade welcomes artists, performers and voyeurs to Santa Monica Boulevard to join thousands of the most creative, clever and sometimes cloth-less costumes strut their stuff to the beats of DJs, live bands, and booming speakers blasting house music loud enough to get anyone to dance.

The RingO Wranglers tossed out free sex toys to their favorite costume-clad fans and, as you can see by our photo gallery, were a hit on every block. Nothing fazed these guys and their red-and-white booty shorts (and the rock hard glutes that flexed underneath) certainly didn’t hurt their popularity.

Once we made it to the heart of the party, we stopped into Chi Chi La Rue’s, one of L.A.’s most popular sex shops, where we hobnobbed with some incognito celebs and partied on the roof under the beautiful starry sky. It doesn’t get cold enough to keep Hollywood’s scenesters from partying without a rooftop – that’s what cocktails are for!

We hosted Matt and his broheim the whole weekend, picking him up in a stretch limo, touring him around Tinseltown, and keeping him safe and sound in a swank Hollywood hotel with no holds barred.

We arrived at hotspot The Colony for some pre-game partying, where the annual God’s Kitchen event was already underway. With glitter and go-go dancers galore, Matt and the Scream Team girls danced to the DJ tracks of Duffle Divas and rubbed noses with city scenesters and celebrity host Jessica Hall.

Then we carted the terrible twosome over to the night’s big event, the 18th Annual Heaven and Hell Halloween gala at trendy nightclub ECCO Lounge. There they chose between good and evil while getting covered in glitter and lip gloss as they met more than their fair share of costume-clad ladies.

Matt even got to meet some of his favorite adult starlets, who were special guests of honor at this annual event. Definitely a night to remember – and it was only halfway through!

Though last call hit at 1:30 a.m., we were prepared to keep the party going at the hotel suite, which the Scream Team pre-stocked with drinks, mixers and some very special party favors. We made a few stops along the world-famous Hollywood Boulevard for some photo-opps and some souvenirs before we finally got to home base. But when we did, the after party went down hard.

We’ve got some serious photographic evidence, but because this is a family show we’ve selected the perfect shots that show how much fun we had without embarrassing our parents.